How can anyone ever give accurate advice if they don't hear both sides of the story?
What is it with people and their inherent need to blame some one or something instead of admitting a fault and just trying to fix it?
What's so hard about "I'm sorry"?
What's even harder about "I forgive you"?
Why do I carry all me stress in my left shoulder?
Why does pain make you cry? Whats the connection? Why do I waste so much time trying to make the connection?
Am I so desperate to be needed that I seek out the selfish people who will need me? Why do I need to feel needed so badly? Why do I look for the ones i can help?
Why do I hate help, from anyone, for anything. What is so hard about admitting I'm not capable of everything and asking for a little help? Does that make sense?
Why does having a uterus make it almost impossible to have the same feelings for more than a day?
Why don't I make chicken pot pie more often?
When you get the answers, let me know!
ReplyDeleteWhat is it with people and their inherent need to blame some one or something instead of admitting a fault and just trying to fix it?--- I know this one! ( I think..)
ReplyDeletePeople like to blame others for something and not admit their faults because it makes them feel better about themselves and makes them look like the better person. (sadly, we all do this...)
How can anyone ever give accurate advice if they don't hear both sides of the story?
ReplyDeleteLuck perhaps. Or experience which enables them to infer the other side of the story, having heard the same stories many times, perhaps.
What is it with people and their inherent need to blame some one or something instead of admitting a fault and just trying to fix it?
Well, admitting your wrong means you're human and perhaps unreliable. Men especially have a hard time admitting they're wrong generally (though so do a lot of women, to be fair) because of what I believe to be the pressures of society and the perception that "men need to do things themselves or they aren't masculine" or something along those lines. For women, it could be a for a feeling of independence, but don't quote me on that one.
What's so hard about "I'm sorry"?
Along with what I said in the previous reply, I think "I'm sorry" is more a pride issue, but also a psychological issue in some cases. If we say we're sorry, then that means we're admitting we're at fault, which also means we are responsible for the consequences of our mistake. Responsibility can be scary.
What's even harder about "I forgive you"?
See the reply to "What's so hard about 'I'm sorry'?" ^
Why do I carry all me stress in my left shoulder?
Stumped me there, lol. Ask a doctor, chiropractor, psychiatrist, and or psychologist. :3
SHOOT, IT WAS TOO LONG. POSTING MY ANSWERS TO THE REST OF THE QUESTIONS AFTER THIS ONE. lol.
Why does pain make you cry? Whats the connection? Why do I waste so much time trying to make the connection?
ReplyDeleteI think we all deal with pain in different ways. If you cry when you're hurt, you're probably considered "normal" but I think it's an emotional / psychological reason of why you're crying, and doesn't actually have to do with the physical, if that answers your question. If not, I tried. >.>
Am I so desperate to be needed that I seek out the selfish people who will need me? Why do I need to feel needed so badly? Why do I look for the ones i can help?
You look for selfish people who will need you... Hmm. That's a bit of a paradox, because a truly selfish person won't "need" you in the sense that you're looking for. The reason you wish to feel needed though is simple human nature, which could even go back to the question, "What is the meaning of life?" I think almost every person seeks validation to prove their life has worth, or to make them feel like there's good in life, or a reason to live. Feeling "needed" is part of a relationship in my opinion, and anyone looking for a relationship (or in one) has this feeling. "Why do I look for the ones I can help?" Again, I think this probably goes back to your need to feel validated and give your life worth. You probably feel that if you can find someone you can help that they'll, in turn, be grateful to you. In that sense, you'll feel "needed."
Why do I hate help, from anyone, for anything. What is so hard about admitting I'm not capable of everything and asking for a little help? Does that make sense?
Yes, that makes sense. Please refer to my answer for, "What is it with people and their inherent need to blame some one or something instead of admitting a fault and just trying to fix it?"
Why does having a uterus make it almost impossible to have the same feelings for more than a day?
I can't say, I don't have a uterus. :| I think it would be best to ask God though, assuming you already know the anatomical reason, you should ask God why he made it that way. That is if you believe in God or a "greater power" of course.
Why don't I make chicken pot pie more often?
Could be a wide range of reasons. You might not have the time, money, and or resources to make it more often. You might forget to make it more often. Maybe you don't even like chicken pot pie, so you don't make it more often. It could be any combination of these things, and various other possibilities.
There, those are my answers and I'm sticking to them!! ;)
Why do I hate help, from anyone, for anything. What is so hard about admitting I'm not capable of everything and asking for a little help? Does that make sense?
ReplyDeleteI do this too! I am so insanely stubborn.
My uterus is making me miserable too, so I feel the need to comment on every PMS post ever. Because I am RIGHT THERE.